I am sure you have all heard the saying: “Good parenting is working yourself out of a job.” While I get the gist of it, I don’t like it overall. Here is why.
We SHOULD train our children. They SHOULD be helping us because they live at home too and should be contributing when it comes to it’s upkeep. BUT I am noticing something that is happening. I feel like more and more moms are spending more and more time on their computers/i-phones and less and less time keeping the home. Which we are commanded to do.
“…encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, WORKERS AT HOME, kind, being subject to their own husbands, so that the word of God will not be dishonored.” Titus 2:4-5
“So I counsel younger widows to marry, to have children, to MANAGE THEIR HOMES and to give the enemy no opportunity for slander.” 1 Timothy 5:14
When we aren’t keeping and managing the home we are allowing the Word of God to be dishonored and we are allowing the enemy opportunity for slander.
Keeping the home WELL is no joke. There are many things that can be done everyday to make our homes run more smoothly and efficiently. We as the managers and keepers of the home are deciding everyday how well our homes will run and how chaotic and messy our homes will be.
In a day and age where we have so many conveniences (dishwasher, vacuums, washer, dryer etc.) there is really no excuse for a home to not be managed/kept well. Some of us, myself included, need to be asking: “Are my kids doing my job?” The Lord has not called our children to manage and keep the home. Yes we should be training them and it will bless them later in life if we do so, but we should never be barking orders from our sofa all day with the laptop and i-phone in front of us because we are too indulgent and selfish. If our homes are falling apart it’s on our shoulders.
I will be the first to admit I have no idea what I am doing when it comes to keeping the home. My poor mother always worked full time outside the home and she never really gave any thought to training us. I am starting from scratch AND I am a very un-organzied person by nature. But I know God wants me to keep my home well and so I know He will answer my prayers to be a better at it. I pray to Him for wisdom on how to be the best keeper of the home I can be.
Don’t embitter your children toward you. Don’t make them question if mom is training them or just being lazy. We are called the keepers of the home and we need to live up to that title.